Love & Relationships

July 24, 2024

How To Keep It 'Just FWB' Without Falling In Love

Let's cut through the BS - we all know that warm and fuzzy feelings can creep up faster than you can say "Netflix and chill." One minute you're enjoying some no-strings fun, the next you're writing their name in hearts. But fear not, intrepid pleasure-seekers. We're about to drop some truth bombs on how to keep your FWB situation strictly in the fun zone.

Rule #1: Spell It Out, Loud and Clear

Before you jump each other's bones, sit your sexy selves down and lay out the ground rules. Are you cool with them seeing other people? What's the deal if one of you starts catching feels? How often are you gonna hook up? Yeah, it might feel about as sexy as filing taxes, but trust us - this convo will save you a world of drama later.

Keep It Casual, Keep It Cool

Remember, it's called 'friends with benefits,' not 'lovers who pretend they're not in a relationship.' Hang out in groups, meet up for your steamy sessions, but for the love of all that's holy, avoid those couple-y activities. Romantic dinners? Nope. Meeting the parents? Hell no. Keep it light, keep it fun, and keep those pesky emotions at bay.

Time It Right

Too much of a good thing can be, well, too much. Limit your rendezvous to a frequency that keeps things hot without crossing into relationship territory. Think of it like spicy food - enough to give you a kick, not so much that you're crying and questioning your life choices.

Play the Field

News flash: Your FWB isn't the last piece of cake on Earth. Keep your options open. Date around. Flirt shamelessly. This isn't about being a player; it's about reminding yourself that your FWB isn't your one and only. Plus, it's a great way to keep those clingy feelings in check.

Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself

Emotions are sneaky little bastards. They can creep up on you faster than you can say "I think I love you." Schedule regular reality checks with yourself. Feeling jealous? Constantly checking your phone? Imagining a future with white picket fences? Time to pump those brakes, honey.

Have a Bail-Out Plan

All good things come to an end, including mind-blowing casual sex. Talk about how you'll handle it when (not if) one of you wants out or finds someone else. Having an exit strategy isn't pessimistic; it's smart. It's like having a fire escape plan - you hope you never need it, but you're damn glad it's there if you do.

Feelings Happen, Deal With It

Look, we're not robots. Sometimes, despite your best efforts, you might catch feelings harder than a cold in flu season. If it happens, own it. Be honest with yourself and your FWB. Maybe it's time to end things, or maybe - plot twist - they feel the same way. Either way, hiding from your feelings is about as effective as using a chocolate teapot.

The Bottom Line

Friends with benefits can be a wild, fun ride if you do it right. It's a chance to explore your desires without the baggage of a relationship. But it takes guts, honesty, and a hefty dose of self-awareness.

Remember, there's no shame in realizing this isn't your cup of tea. Maybe you're more of a relationship person, or maybe casual just isn't your style. The key is knowing yourself and what you can handle.

So there you have it, folks. The no-bullshit guide to keeping your FWB situation strictly benefits, no emotional baggage required. Now go forth and have fun, you sexy, emotionally intelligent beasts!

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